Dating thread

[Everlong]

What's that gotta do with anything? She's hot!

Well for one she's engaged to be married.

If that was a problem for her, then I would call it off. But she told me she has an understanding with her fiance. They are both allowed to see other people and she even tells him about it. If she was fully committed it would be a no go.

There's nothing troublesome for you about a woman who thinks that little about her commitment to her fiancee?

I mean, different strokes for different folks and all, I guess that's just a situation I'd want to steer clear of.

[Viazon]

I think if two people in a relationship have an understand and they have an open relationship then its fine. If they are OK with it, then it's their choice. She did tell me that if her fiance suddenly had a problem with her seeing other men, then she would stop. But she said that she would also expect him to stop. I'm not one to judge people on their kinds of relationship.

But it would be a different story if she was doing it behind her fiances back and without his knowledge. Then I would have an issue with it.

[PorkChop]

I think if two people in a relationship have an understand and they have an open relationship then its fine. If they are OK with it, then it's their choice. She did tell me that if her fiance suddenly had a problem with her seeing other men, then she would stop. But she said that she would also expect him to stop. I'm not one to judge people on their kinds of relationship.

But it would be a different story if she was doing it behind her fiances back and without his knowledge. Then I would have an issue with it.

I agree with the others in this thread, it seems a bit weird.

I suggest having a wank and then seeing how you feel about the whole thing.

[Viazon]

Well nothing has happened yet. We just met up for drinks. Who knows if it will even go that far.

In any case Porkie, if you get tired with POF, I suggest you try this badoo. It's not really a dating site, more of a social media site, but I have been on it for like, a week, and I'm already talking regularly to four girls.

However, if I were you, I would see where things go with the Zooey Deschanel lookalike. Of course, if that fails, you can send her my way.

[Kein]

This is the great thing about relationships. As long as both parties are comfortable and in an understanding things work fine. It's good she let Vince know the situation so she wouldn't be stringing him along as if he was getting into a real relationship, they both know this is just a fling. If Vince is cool with this, it works for him. I'd like to see Vince happy so I am glad he is cool with it.

[DanielsonTHAGOAT]

Alright guys, after being MIA on my Tinder app for a couple of days, I came back and started rating girls. You know just chilling on the toilet taking a mean shit and all of a sudden as I start to hit the check for all the attractive ladies, they all become matched with me one by one . So I went from like 0 matches to 3 within 3 days and that works for me.

Anyhow I texted all of them because I was too excited and shouldn't have done that but so far Girl #2 and 3 responded. Girl #1 hasn't been active for 3 days so we'll see how this goes. And I also made sure to confirm that they aren't bots... They live right around me too.. pics below

Spoiler:

Gonna edit in the pics right here..



First girl, she has a girl next door vibe to her but she hasn't been active for 3 days, hopefully she'll see my message.



Girl on the left is girl #2, well receptive, so far is really cool out of all of them.



Girl on the left is girl #3, she's alright to me but I'll play along to see if I like what I see.

I gotta play my cards right gentlemen, let the games begin..

[AkydefGoldberg]

So, I received a FB message from a mutual friend of a mate of mine who enquiried if I was single and looking for marriage. I said yes to both. She had someone who she worked with in mind. Great I thought. Sadly, she turned out to be 34 so I politely declined. She has though given me an e-mail address to get to know a girl who is 27, and works with her atm. How to word a first introductory e-mail?

[Everlong]

So, I received a FB message from a mutual friend of a mate of mine who enquiried if I was single and looking for marriage. I said yes to both. She had someone who she worked with in mind. Great I thought. Sadly, she turned out to be 34 so I politely declined. She has though given me an e-mail address to get to know a girl who is 27, and works with her atm. How to word a first introductory e-mail?

"Hey _____,

I'm AkyDefGoldberg! I was given your email address by _____, I guess she's a mutual friend of ours! She seems to think the two of us should get together sometime and get to know each other. I'm not usually real big on set-ups, but _______ is pretty cool and I definitely trust her judgment. She thinks that you're pretty great, so it must be true!

How'd you like to grab lunch or coffee sometime? I'm free at (particular days/times), so if you'd like to join me, let me know when you're free too and hopefully we can match up our schedules.

Hope to speak more to you soon!

-AkyDefGoldberg"

[Daz]

So, I received a FB message from a mutual friend of a mate of mine who enquiried if I was single and looking for marriage. I said yes to both. She had someone who she worked with in mind. Great I thought. Sadly, she turned out to be 34 so I politely declined. She has though given me an e-mail address to get to know a girl who is 27, and works with her atm. How to word a first introductory e-mail?

"Hey _____,

I'm AkyDefGoldberg! I was given your email address by _____, I guess she's a mutual friend of ours! She seems to think the two of us should get together sometime and get to know each other. I'm not usually real big on set-ups, but _______ is pretty cool and I definitely trust her judgment. She thinks that you're pretty great, so it must be true!

How'd you like to grab lunch or coffee sometime? I'm free at (particular days/times), so if you'd like to join me, let me know when you're free too and hopefully we can match up our schedules.

Hope to speak more to you soon!

-AkyDefGoldberg"

I hope to god he copies and pastes this and keeps the AkyDefGoldberg name intact.

[Everlong]

And also the blanks

[Daz]

And also the blanks

If he could work in something about being a Nigerian prince with money he wants holding, it'd be the perfect spam email.

[AkydefGoldberg]

So, I received a FB message from a mutual friend of a mate of mine who enquiried if I was single and looking for marriage. I said yes to both. She had someone who she worked with in mind. Great I thought. Sadly, she turned out to be 34 so I politely declined. She has though given me an e-mail address to get to know a girl who is 27, and works with her atm. How to word a first introductory e-mail?

"Hey _____,

I'm AkyDefGoldberg! I was given your email address by _____, I guess she's a mutual friend of ours! She seems to think the two of us should get together sometime and get to know each other. I'm not usually real big on set-ups, but _______ is pretty cool and I definitely trust her judgment. She thinks that you're pretty great, so it must be true!

How'd you like to grab lunch or coffee sometime? I'm free at (particular days/times), so if you'd like to join me, let me know when you're free too and hopefully we can match up our schedules.

Hope to speak more to you soon!

-AkyDefGoldberg"

Thanks Tim! That's a brilliant piece to get working with.

Sadly Daz, will have to edit AkydefGoldberg and the blanks before she hits it the e-mail into her spam box

[SortaCreative]

So, I received a FB message from a mutual friend of a mate of mine who enquiried if I was single and looking for marriage. I said yes to both. She had someone who she worked with in mind. Great I thought. Sadly, she turned out to be 34 so I politely declined. She has though given me an e-mail address to get to know a girl who is 27, and works with her atm. How to word a first introductory e-mail?

Wanna get hooked up?

Reply asap

kktnxbai,

[Locke]

Don't use as many exclamation points as Tim did. It makes the letter read like you're a crack addict.

We all know Tim suffers, but that's his problem to deal with, not yours.

[Daz]

Don't use as many exclamation points as Tim did. It makes the letter read like you're a crack addict.

We all know Tim suffers, but that's his problem to deal with, not yours.

He's a crack addict
That’s right he's a crack addict
You heard me he's a crack addict
He's addicted to crackin' skulls when punks start static!

[Kein]

More smileys. Chix digg smileys.

[Kein]

IDGAF I am double posting (is there a rule against that?)

So POF has truly been 0% response to me. I've tried sending messages in all sorts of different approaches. I dunno how you do it pork chop. 10% response rate, you must be one hell of a catch.

I was going to use Zoosk but it costs money and I am not sure I want to dedicate that much to online meeting yet. I may in the future but right now I just... dunno if I wanna go that much into it. Also if I were to subscribe I feel like I should go to something like OKCupid instead.

Still haven't checked out Tinder or Badoo. I think my response rate on POF has me in a "why bother state" but Tinder still KIND of has my interest...

How is everyone else doing?

[Everlong]

IDGAF I am double posting (is there a rule against that?)

So POF has truly been 0% response to me. I've tried sending messages in all sorts of different approaches. I dunno how you do it pork chop. 10% response rate, you must be one hell of a catch.

I was going to use Zoosk but it costs money and I am not sure I want to dedicate that much to online meeting yet. I may in the future but right now I just... dunno if I wanna go that much into it. Also if I were to subscribe I feel like I should go to something like OKCupid instead.

Still haven't checked out Tinder or Badoo. I think my response rate on POF has me in a "why bother state" but Tinder still KIND of has my interest...

How is everyone else doing?

OkCupid is honestly way better than POF. I would absolutely suggest using that site over any of the others, even the paid services, as it's basically just as good as match or eharmony but without having to shell out money for it.

POF just is a bad interface and a bad service. I always tell people to stay away from it.

[Locke]

IDGAF I am double posting (is there a rule against that?)

Naw bro, you're cool. YOU COOL BRA

[Str8Shooter]

Viazon is killing me in this thread.

I tried to stick up for you and then you go and start posting stuff like this!