I don’t necessarily feel the need to add my two cents, because Porky rather eloquently did so for me. But I can’t help myself, so here we go anyway.
It seems like some of the comments I read were made by people who've never been in a position where their life was threatened, nor have ever been in a position that makes them solely responsible for the well-being of another person. I'm sure I just put my foot in my mouth with that statement, and will get responses from people who've actually been victims of violent crimes, and have five kids haha.
I think the problem I have here is the tone. No, I never have been in a position where my immediately family and loved ones, or a person I’m responsible for is put in life threatening danger. And I’m bloody glad of that. I’m bloody glad I live in a country where I don’t have to worry about any old person could be wandering around with a gun and could start shooting at the drop of a hat. We’ve seen three shootings in America take place in a month, and in some instances, it makes certain people want to get a hold of more guns to protect themselves from these so called maniacs, which only contributes to the problem even more. As Porky said, it’s a vicious cycle, which is what I abstractly pointed out to Locke in the previous thread with the neighbour argument.
Suggesting that everyone should feel safe enough to go without owning a gun just because you personally do, is one of the most arrogant statements I've ever read. It's nice to be idealistic and contend that the possibility of having to defend one's family isn't high enough to warrant owning a gun, but who the hell are you, or anyone else, to make that call? I especially loved the home-invasion scenario Daz created, as if there's a set of guidelines "most" intruders adhere to.
In the same respect, who the hell are you to suggest or even infer that opposite? It’s not arrogance to feel safe without owning a gun. I am safe without a gun. I’m safe because I know the general population and law abiding citizens aren’t walking around with them, have no access to them and statistically, the chances of a crime being committed with one is very, very slim, because you can’t buy one in a supermarket. As Porky says, you can’t on one hand acknowledge the gun problem in your country, whilst obliging and giving a pass to those who wish to own one.
I especially loved the home-invasion scenario Daz created, as if there's a set of guidelines "most" intruders adhere to. "Nah, don't worry. He's probably one of the "regular" criminals; not one of those "bad" ones. I'm sure he's unarmed and has no intention of causing me harm. He only wants to steal some stuff. I'll just call the police and slip out the back door."
The condescension really isn’t necessary. Let’s be honest, if someone is legitimately breaking into your home (and as Porky points out, what are chances statistically) you’re not going to be thinking clearly, especially if as you say, you’re responsible for the other people in the house.
He may just be trying to steal something. He may not want to harm anyone at all. It might just be idiot kids or it may even be someone you know. My point in the previous thread was you just don’t know. And when you add a gun into a situation like that, where you’re not thinking clearly, adrenaline is pumping and you don’t have time to sit there and think about the consequences of your actions, something bad is likely to happen.
Suppose he is armed. Suppose he does intend to harm you. Suppose the nearest cop isn't right around the corner. Call it a product of gun culture, call it whatever you want. I call it reality. Unfortunately, we live in a world where unimaginably horrific things happen to people, and suggesting that those who react to that reality by arming themselves are "retarted" is a statement I take issue with. Also, the point of having a gun handy in the event of a break-in isn't necessarily to shoot the intruder; can you think of a more effective--and immediate--way to scare one off? If anything, a gun in that situation could be an ideal way of preventing any kind of physical altercation between the intruder and homeowner.
If my view was idealistic, then this is just blatant pessimism. A gun might be handy if someone breaks into your house. But surely investing in better locks and a better security system would be a less paranoid and ultimately less dangerous solution. A weapon should never be an option.
Yes, supposes the intruder is armed , I fail to see how adding another gun to the mix will help. As WestCoastVibes says, his fathered scared an intruder off by firing into a wall, that’s very fortunate for him, and I’m sure WestCoast was thankful his father had a gun at hand because of it. But what if it went the other way. What if there was a second person in the house he wasn’t aware of, and if they did mean to do harm as you say, then firing might only have rankled them further. What if they disarmed WestCoast’s dad and that story didn’t have a good ending.
You just don’t know.
And that was my point to Locke. Guns were designed to do harm, there’s just no way around that point. You may have a problem with one statement, well I have a problem with this statement “Unfortunately, we live in a world where unimaginably horrific things happen to people, and suggesting that those who react to that reality by arming themselves…”
It implies I don’t live in a reality, and evidently I do. I live in a reality where ordinary citizens have died in your country this past month alone, because someone was able to get hold of a gun. They weren’t criminals until the act was committed. Hell, most of them were students. They weren’t trying to break into someone’s home where your loved ones and the people you are responsible for sleep. Most, if not all, of these shootings took place in public, in schools. And I know if the guns weren’t there, weren’t available, people en masse would still be alive. There is a gun culture in America, and it is absolutely terrifying to me that people will continue to defend their right to own one when this stuff happens, and use baseless paranoia and oxymoronic arguments like “I own them to protect myself from people who do have guns.”
The mind bending lack of logic behind that is scary to me and I fear it’s the logic that a lot of Americans use when making the decision to purchase a gun.